we have more and more single moms and dads finding themselves in the "dating" world
and if you are one of these people then you know how difficult it is
kids get extremely attached.
break their promises.
and your kids almost suffer MORE than you
being a victim of this circumstance, i vowed that i never wanna put my kids at risk for being hurt
until i really KNOW that im with the person im gonna marry and spend the rest of my life with
but how do you know?
people are so unpredictable
how do you know that they really are who they are and who they say theyre gonna be?
thats the danger of dating with kids
keeping a very crisp line
no gray area
no "booty calls"
im above all of that
SUPERIOR to it
its beneath me
and i wont fall subject to it
i wont have "friends" making passes at me making me uncomfortable
if you wanna be a friend then be one
my friends dont get to come over here and have sex
go to your other "friends" for that
by now everyone should be very clear on where i stand about them because i dont play games
i dont pretend
and dont fake like im feelin something i dont
i dont call people
and i rarely answer my fone
because i know my time and my company is valuable.
its given to my kids unless i deem someone worthy of sharing some of that time
i have made HUGE character misjudgments in the past
and im alot smarter now
so im not mad about having to make smart decisions
thats a good thing
its a good thing that i have to weigh in on everyone who might affect my kids
if youre single with kids and dating: think about your kids first
NEVER EVER choose a man OVER your kids.
and STAND UP for what you believe in and how you think you should be treated
recognize that you are setting a FOREVER image, example of what your kids think is healthy and normal.
they will think however you act is how they are supposed to act in their own relationships when they come of age.
a man is LUCKY when he finds a wife.
so realize your worth, let your daughters know their worth
women you are worth MORE than rubies (it says it in the Bible)
stick with the man that KNOWS that
and with the man that makes you FEEL like that.
everyday you should wake up SMILING because youre next to your husband or wife.
live your miracle