Friday, July 30, 2010

Simplifying My Life

im eliminating alot out of my life
using and keeping only what i NEED.
giving more to myself,
more to my children.
i dont want to constantly be distracted from them.
technology is a blessing nodoubt
but it is a constant intrusion.
cable, Internet, phone, cell phone, email, chirp, fax machines, its all very draining to me.
if i have the internet at home, why do i then also need it on my phone?
if i have a phone at home, why do i need one on the go?
CONVENIENCE
but all the sudden these "conveniences" are INconveniencing me.
i have a million ways to get in contact with the ones away from me
when i should be connecting with the ones IN front on me :)

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

parents

never put a MAN before your children
SHOW them the type of people u want them to be
LEAD by example
WATCH what u are teaching your sons or daughters
are u showing them how to be a LEADER
how to STAND UP 4 THEMSELVES?
be INDEPENDANT?

ladies... if you have a daughter,
SHOW THEM how to be a STRONG WOMAN
BE the woman u want your baby to grow up to BE
let HER SEE THAT A MAN DOES NOT DEFINE YOU


if you have SONS
SHOW THEM the type of MAN they should grow up to be
SHOW THEM responsability


TOO many women are raising kids with NO MORALS
no VALUES BEYOND THEMSELVES


these are the SAME children that are going to be the young adults in the NEAR future
yet we teach them the WRONG things
we teach them TO REJECT responsability

we ALL are gonna have to depend on our children one day

if YOU REJECT YOUR CHILD

when you NEED THEM

they may REJECT YOU!

Saturday, July 3, 2010

jULY 3 2010

ive been trying to teach my 6 year old son about GOD
and how to talk to him
why he should have a relationship with GOD
how GOD blesses us
i SHOW him GODs blessings
i ask him about what he says to GOD
he reads bible scripture almost everyday (lol he's 6 what do u want lol)

things have gotten better between us
but we have along way to go still


i want to build our communication with each other
i know that there are more things that i can be doing to help things move along.

so today when my son wakes up (me and amil woke up before him today... WOW)
i will tell him what I talked to GOD about.
and i hope when i do that
he can see that im a person

i make mistakes
i get hurt
i get dissappointed
i struggle

and all i want for him is to be BETTER than me

i just want him to have more
see more
be more

make more
create more

i love my kids so much

they are continuously teaching me about myself
making me stretch myself further
set a higher standard
love a little harder

to still be able to care for them
when u emotionally feel like youre in a pit of despair

that is GOD

GOD fills me and moves me when i cant do it for myself
thats the power i want my kids to know

DO the unthinkable
be UNSTOPPABLE